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Making it Memorable
With the cyber connection and masses of resources
available to us, brides are taking back their
weddings and planning them themselves. It’s not
just budget constraints that make you want to plan
your own wedding. Your wedding is the one day if
finally is…all about you.
The fun part of planning is making your wedding
reflect your unique personalities. Don’t be swayed
by wedding magazines & other people’s opinions.
Although you’ll want to follow a certain amount of
etiquette and be sensitive to other’s feelings,
these days the wedding rules are pretty flexible.
Do what you really want, it’s your day.
Everyone that is important to you and your family
will be in one room to celebrate with you. They all
want you to be happy and want your day to be
special. Nicole, of “everythingforweddings.com”,
says about personalizing “Family and friends are
such an important part of planning your wedding
day. What better way to show your gratitude than
with a gift that says, “You’re one of a kind.”
Personalized gifts bring the brightest smiles and
makes loved one’s feel as if you’ve gone above and
beyond for them.“
There are limitless ways to personalize your
wedding. Think about what makes each of you unique
from your hobbies, interests, sports, favorite
books, films, and ethnic backgrounds. Find ways to
incorporate them in the theme. Perhaps your fiancé
and you love fishing together. You could have a
recessional much like in the military where instead
of crossed swords; you have some friends holding
crossed fishing rods you run under.
Making your day memorable doesn’t have to be
expensive. A lot of emphasis is put on how you will
look and everything around you will look, but people
won’t remember every detail or even what was said,
they will however, remember how they felt. They
will remember their tears as they watch the daddy
daughter dance and hear the words to ‘butterfly
kisses’ more than what the centerpieces were made
of. So put some thought also into how you want to
feel and how you want your guests to feel. Write it
down as part of your theme and goals. This will
help direct a lot of your decisions.
By personalizing the details of your wedding and
spending time on creating the feelings you want, you
will have a wedding that guests will be talking
about for a long time.
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